I say grab it with both greedy hands if you stumble upon it, and do whatever it takes to keep it, as long as it works for you.
“Listen, before we do this, I need to tell you something...”I agree.
That’s one of the main upsides to dating somebody who’s also sober.
The old “I’ve wrestled with my demons and won” line? How about a simple, “I’m a pretty hot colossal f**k up”?
It’s always a little awkward when a potential date wants to “meet you for a drink.” Telling them you’re sober feels like confessing to some horrible chronic STD.
Sam continues, “Dating in the program is obviously nice, because you speak the same language and you don't have to hide your ugly past.